You should be rich in thoughts. We can gain this richness most of the time by our wise elders, mentors, role models, influencers and by books. We can get this richness of thoughts by the way of our brought up also.
You are the one who can monitor your mind, cultivate your mind. Here only the happiness of your life rises. No one knows your mind better than you. Instead of going to outer sources in order to know your mind, its better you to cultivate your mind with better study of it.
As well as we should mentor our mind this way that in the worst situation also it should be ready to accept the situation and face it. Though it actually is very difficult thing. It is like having less or no expectations from the situation.
Generally children get the habits from their parents. Just a example if the children see their parents are kind to others so the children do. Otherwise children become arrogant and does not aware of other people's problems.